Something Old, Something New…

It has been nearly a year since the last time I have sat down to write…
I’d be lucky to get out a picture on “Wordless Wednesdays”
This year has been more than I even feel capable of processing….
Someone mentioned to me that the last they read on here I was still with Fracker… So, I thought I’d try to recap this past year as concise as possible…

This time last year, I was working at Rue21 and wrapping up the mess that was my relationship with John…. Our relationship had been over for months, I don’t know why we still put each other through the misery. John and I had some really good times and he was a great friend to my family and I during a challenging time but that time proved that we were not designed to be together. We tried to “be friends” such bull…but after one to many yelling matches we were done. When your relationship can be summed up by an Eminim song it is a clear sign that you need to move on…

And…I did.

I had been talking to Nic, a professional MMA fighter, since August, whom I was introduced to at an event earlier that year. I remember meeting Nic and thinking he was the hottest guy in the room…and we were at an MMA event, there was not a lack of good-looking men. He had his hoodie pulled up over his wild, curly, brown hair and his blue eyes pierced right through me as he smiled and shook my hand. For quite a while I thought of Nic and hoped that I would hear from him… I than started hanging out with John and no longer wondered if Nic would call. Seven months later and out of the clear blue I got a message from “The Killer” on Myspace…it was Nic My stomach filled with butterflies as a wave of excitement rushed over me! I was actually out-of-town for a work-related trip the first couple weeks we were “talking” and after endless text messages, phone conversations, and MySpace messages we met up. We hung out one night after I got off work and truly the rest is history!

Nic and I dated for six months and decided to marry… I knew I had a kindred spirit, a faithful companion, and a lifelong partner in Nicholas and although I was scared out of my mind…I was on board.

Nic and I are now happily married and enjoying life together. I have started a new job at Jenny Craig and Nic has been training a lot of new guys… Alex just turned 9 years old and started school last week. Life is good. Life is SO good.

I won’t promise to be more consistent in my writing because, let’s be honest… who knows?! Just wanted to update this so there was no confusion in who my husband is haha